The high cost of your bad marriage

We need marriage counseling! But how do I get my partner involved?

It is not uncommon for one spouse to show more interest or motivation in seeking out marriage counseling. One way to bring this up, is to tell him your spouse you want to increase the positives in the relationship. Instead of concentrating on negative behaviors (“We need therapy because you do everything wrong!”), focus on the hope for the positive (“I want to laugh more and have fun with you…and marriage counseling can help us do that.”). How can your partner argue with this? Here are 4 tips